This is a tale. The grandmother, the bride and the jeweler are imagined, but every ring and every tradition they talk about is real, and some are thousands of years old.
The bell over the door jingled, and a young woman named Claire came in from the heat of Royal Street with her grandmother on her arm. Claire was getting married in the spring. Her grandmother, who had been married for fifty-two years, had insisted on coming along.
"We're looking for wedding bands," Claire said. "Something with meaning."
The old jeweler behind the counter smiled. "Then you've come to the right place. Every ring in here means something. Sit down. Let me show you some very old love stories."
The Vein of Love
He took Claire's left hand gently and touched the fourth finger.
"Do you know why the ring goes here? The ancient Romans believed a vein ran straight from this finger to the heart. They called it the vena amoris, the vein of love. Doctors will tell you it isn't true, of course." He winked. "But brides have believed it for two thousand years, and I'm not going to argue with them."
Claire's grandmother laughed. "I believed it."
Hands in Faith
The jeweler set a small gold band on a velvet tray. On its front, two tiny hands clasped each other.
"This is a fede ring. The name comes from the Italian mani in fede, hands joined in faith. The Romans gave rings like this, and so did people in the Middle Ages. Two hands holding on to each other. It's the oldest promise there is."
Two Rings That Become One
Next he brought out something that looked like a single ring. Then, carefully, he twisted it, and it opened into two separate bands that had been fitted together.
Claire gasped. "It comes apart!"
"This is a gimmel ring, from the Latin word for twins. In the Renaissance, a couple would each wear one half during their engagement, and on their wedding day the two halves were joined into one ring for the bride. Two people, one ring. Martin Luther, the famous reformer, married his wife Katharina with a gimmel ring in 1525."
The Secret Inside
He handed Claire a plain gold band and a loupe. "Look inside."
She squinted. Engraved on the inside of the band, in old-fashioned letters, were the words: Let love abide till death divide.
"That's a posy ring," the jeweler said. "In England, hundreds of years ago, lovers had little poems engraved inside their rings, where only the wearer would know they were there. A secret against the skin."
Claire's grandmother slowly twisted the ring on her own finger. "Mine says something too," she said quietly. "Your grandfather wrote it. I've never told anyone what it says."
Claire stared at her. "Grandma!"
The old woman just smiled.
The Heart, the Hands and the Crown
Last of all, the jeweler showed them a ring with two hands holding a heart, and a crown on top.
"The Claddagh ring, from a fishing village near Galway in Ireland. The legend says a young man named Richard Joyce was captured at sea and sold into slavery far from home. His master was a goldsmith, and Richard learned the craft. For years he dreamed of the girl he left behind. When he was finally freed, he made this ring and sailed home, and found she had waited for him all that time."
"The hands are friendship," said Claire's grandmother, who knew the story. "The heart is love. The crown is loyalty."
The One She Chose
Claire looked at all the rings on the velvet for a long time. Then she picked up the posy ring and turned it in the light.
"Can you engrave this one for us? Something only we'll know?"
"I'd be honored," said the jeweler.
On the way out, Claire squeezed her grandmother's hand. "Will you tell me what yours says? Someday?"
Her grandmother laughed and patted her cheek. "Ask me on your fiftieth anniversary."
The Legend and the Truth
The "vein of love": the belief that a vein runs from the fourth finger of the left hand to the heart goes back to ancient times and is why many cultures wear wedding rings on that finger.
Fede rings: rings with clasped hands, from the Italian mani in fede, have been made since Roman times.
Gimmel rings: interlocking twin bands, popular in the Renaissance. Martin Luther and Katharina von Bora were married with one in 1525.
Posy rings: engraved with short verses, often inside the band, and especially popular in England from the 1500s to the 1700s.
Claddagh rings: from Galway, Ireland, with a much-loved legend about Richard Joyce, a goldsmith who returned home to his love.
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